Barbara Marie (Julius) Lappin, 89, of Sesser, Illinois, passed away on Wednesday, December 17, 2025 at Stonebridge in Mt. Vernon, Il.
Born September 15th, 1936 in Jefferson County to John and Petronilla (Puleikis) Julius. She attended St. Barbara’s Catholic School in Scheller, IL. and graduated from Goode Barren Township High School in 1954.
She married Robert L. Lappin on February 19th, 1955. They had three sons and one daughter; Robert Brent, Mark Lee, Barbara Jayne, and Marion Ray. Barbara was best known as the longtime owner of the Custard Stand in Sesser, which she ran for nearly a quarter of a century.
She was an avid painter and loved spending time with her grandchildren, occasionally taking them on trips in her earlier years. She also enjoyed going to see her musically talented family perform at various venues, especially at her annual “Garage Band” birthday parties. Family and friends would come from miles away to celebrate with her. In her last years she had the great joy of seeing her Great Grandchildren as they visited her at her residence.
Barbara is survived by her sons; Robert B. Lappin (Kay Kimmel) of Burbank, CA, Mark (Mona) Lappin,Marion (Kelly) Lappin of Sesser, and daughter Barbara Jayne Lappin of Crainville, Il. Grandchildren; Matthew (Brittany) Lappin, Carly Gregory, Marcus Lappin, Rae (Ross) Worthey. Seven Great Grandchildren; Arthur, Ellie, and Olive Lappin. Harrison Hoekstra (Marcus) Jane Pearl, Marigold Lee and Flora Marie Worthey, and several nieces and nephews.She was preceded in death by her father John Julius, mother Petronilla (Julius) Heck, brother John Julius, sister Leona Lee (Julius) Heck and her husband Robert L. Lappin.
Funeral services will be held at the Brayfield-Gilbert Funeral Home in Sesser, Il, Monday December 22, 2025, with Monsignor David Darin officiating. Visitation will be from 11:00 am to the time of the funeral at 1:00 pm. Burial will be at Maple Hill Cemetery in Sesser.In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Alzheimer’s Association or Autism Awareness.
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