Julia V. Weathers — Benton, IL

BENTON — Julia V. Weathers, 84, passed away at 7:26 p.m. Sunday, Aug. 7, 2016, in Stonebridge Senior Living Center in Benton.

Mrs. Weathers was born Feb. 28, 1932, to Roy and Lolita (Morgan) Vinyard in Des Plaines.

She retired after teaching art for 39 years in the Benton grade school system.

She was a member of First Baptist Church in Benton.

Julia is survived by her sons, Gene Timothy “Tim” Weathers and wife, Virginia, of Palmersville, Tennessee, and Scott M. “Stormy” Weathers of Fort Worth, Texas.

She was preceded in death by her parents and one sister, Jeanne Hitt.

Memorial services will be at 6 p.m. Thursday, Aug. 11 in First Baptist Church, at 201 S. Main St., in Benton, with Dave Severin officiating. Visitation will be from 5 to 6 p.m. Thursday at the church.

A parent’s guide to surviving the first day of kindergarten

(Editor’s Note: I wrote this column prior to the start of the 2005-06 school year and it deals with the anxiety that goes along with sending a child off to school for the first time. I have not changed any dates or ages in the column. Interestingly, the kindergarten students I wrote about in this column will be entering their junior year of high school this month. I hope you enjoy!)  JM

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During the next few days kindergarteners across the nation — the Class of 2018 — will head off to school for the very first time.

Today’s offering might be considered a survival guide, not for the happy-go-lucky students, but for the nervous, anxiety-ridden parents.

A few years ago I was given the assignment to go to a local grade school and try to capture a story about the first day of school for incoming kindergarten students. So, with camera and notebook in hand I trudged off. Let me describe the scene.

As I walked down the hallway that housed the three kindergarten classes I couldn’t help but notice how almost everybody I passed had a somewhat dazed look in their eyes. Some were walking slowly as if they were unsure about their next step. Others were walking unsteadily, staying close to the outside walls like they were searching for some type of security. Some had a stunned look on their face as if they had just been given some bad news and a few even had tears in their eyes. One or two couldn’t control their emotions and were bawling uncontrollably.

Of course, I should explain that what I just described were the poor parents who were tackling for the first time the 13-year adventure known as the public school system. As far as the first-year students were concerned, they seemed oblivious to their nervous-wracked parents and were doing just fine.

Speaking from experience, many young parents who are sending their first child off to school in the coming days are in for a real life lesson. First, they will learn, perhaps for the first time that their child is not perfect and in fact might not be the smartest, brightest, funniest, most creative, athletic kid in the class. For some parents this will cause great alarm.

I recall 20 years ago when my oldest daughter Lyndsay headed off to kindergarten. She was, in my estimation, brilliant. She could read, she could write, she knew all of her numbers. So, imagine my alarm when on about the second day of school her teacher sent home a note saying that she couldn’t tell time. My first reaction was horror. How could that mean teacher say that about my intelligent, perfect daughter? After reading the note, in my mind her school career was ruined. It was my first recollection that my children are not perfect. Somehow though, we managed to get through the traumatic ordeal and she made it through the next 12 years with flying colors and even learned how to tell time.

Of course, I also quickly realized that there was a reason she couldn’t tell time — every clock in the house was digital and she had no idea what the hands on a clock meant.

Despite the fact that it has been two decades ago I can still remember the worry attached to sending a child off to public school for the first time. How will they react when I’m not around? Will they get along with others? Will they be accepted by the other students? And the list of worrisome questions goes on and on. As much as I hate to admit it, I even drove by the school during those first few days to see if I could get a glimpse of her on the playground. While some people might not understand that mentality, there are many people this very week that will know that feeling well and will be asking themselves those same questions.

And of course there will be memories forged by the Class of 2018 that will last forever.

My wife Lisa still tells the story about the way her son reacted to a teacher’s question when he was in kindergarten. When asked by the teacher what his middle name was, Josh thought for a second and said “oo-wah.” The teacher asked him if he was sure his middle name was “oo-wah.”

“My name is Joshua (Josh-oo-wah) so my middle name must be “oo-wah,” he told her.

Despite the fact that Josh is 24 years old his mother still occasionally refers to him by his kindergarten middle name — ‘oo-wah.’

As a word of encouragement to all the rookies that will be sending kids to school for the first time this year, trust me when I tell you that it will get easier. In fact, in a few years when you become summer activity director/taxi driver/ATM machine for your child you will look forward with excitement to the start of another school year.

I’m certain the Class of 2018 will do just fine as they embark on their educational journey. We’re counting on them; they’re our future. As far as the poor parents, just make sure your perfect child can tell time and also that they know their middle name.

And oh, one more thing; if a kindergarten-induced anxiety attack hits you; it’s perfectly all right to drive by the school once in a while.

 

 

 

Charles “Byron” Smith – Orient, IL

Charles “Byron” Smith, 58, of Orient IL, passed away on Sunday, August 7, 2016, at 3 a.m. in Benton IL.

byron Byron was born on November 4, 1957 to Charles “Dick” and Suzanne (née Stuckey) Casey in Christopher, IL. He graduated from Benton Consolidated High School in 1976. He worked for several coal mines, including Freeman Coal Co. and Amax Coal Co. Byron enjoyed swapping good jokes, cooking (and eating) savory food, and swimming in lakes and the ocean.

Byron is survived by his mother Sue Casey and stepfather Charles Casey of Benton IL; son Joshua Byron Smith and wife Lora Walsh, of Fayetteville, AR, with their son Zadok Owen and daughter Aletta Fontabel; son Alex Tyler Smith and wife Amanda, of Benton, IL, with their daughter Alivia JoAnn; daughter Anna Elizabeth Lane and husband Randy, of St. Louis, MO; brother, Scott Ralls and wife Andrea of Cordlandt Manor, NY; sister Valarie Durham of Roswell, NM; brothers Rick Casey and Randy Casey, both of Benton IL; and sister Tammy Rehbock of Romeoville, IL.

He is preceded in death by his father, Charles Richard Smith, and his stepmother, Donna Kay Smith.

In accordance with Byron’s wishes, there will be no funeral services and cremation will be held.

Arrangements entrusted to Pate Funeral Home, 301 S. Main St., Benton, IL.

A memorial service will be held Saturday, August 13, 2016, at 11 a.m. at the First Baptist Church, 201 S. Main, in Benton IL.

Memorial contributions are requested to Hospice of Southern Illinois and will be accepted at the funeral home.

The guestbook may be signed at www.patefh.com

Jason Paul Bailey – Benton, IL

Jason Paul Bailey, 43, of Benton, IL, passed away Friday, August 5, 2016 at Franklin Hospital, in Benton.

Jason was born in Benton on March 26, 1973, the son of John T. and Sharon Rose (Holman) Bailey.

Jason dearly loved his children and family.

He is survived by three children, Gaige Bailey, Holmes Beach, FL, Madelyn Kays, of Sesser, IL and Ryder Lane Bailey, of Zeigler, IL; mother Sharon Rose Burton, of Benton; sister Beth Smith and husband Scott, of Ewing, IL; two brothers, Scott Bailey and wife Leigh Anne, of Benton and T.J. Burton, of Benton.

He was preceded in death by his father John T. Bailey.

Funeral services will be held at 8 p.m. on Wednesday, August 10, 2016 at Morton & Johnston Funeral Home in Benton. Visitation will be from 5 p.m. to the time of the service at 8 p.m. at the funeral home.

Lawanda B. (Evilsizer) Fourez – Christopher, IL

Lawanda B. (Evilsizer) Fourez, 86, of Christopher, IL, passed away on August 6, 2016.

She was born on October 15th, 1929 in Buckner, IL, to George Lucien and Goldie Mae (Shover) Evilsizer. She was united in holy matrimony to Frank “Bunny” Fourez Jr. on June 29th, 1946.

The union was blessed with seven children. Her beautiful life will forever be cherished in the lives of her children; Larry (Susie) Fourez, Rick (Yvonne) Fourez both of Christopher, IL, Randy (Debbie) Fourez of Marion, IL, Bunny Fourez of Christopher, IL, Tami (Roger) Price of Benton, IL, Rodney (Francie) Fourez, Darrin Fourez both of Christopher, IL; 14 grandchildren, Jolie (Marty) Ramsey, Larry (Gayla) Fourez Jr., Jackie Miller, Johnny (Jamie) Fourez, Eric (Stephanie) Fourez, Amy (Mike) Johnson, Cameron (Brianna) Fourez, Jamie (Troy) Randall, Christopher (Rachel) Price, Abbie Price, Meghan (Chad) Dirler, Rodney (Katie) Fourez, Jared (Alyssa) Fourez, Dylan Fourez, Zeke Fourez; 26 Great grandchildren; 4 great great grandchildren.

Lawanda also leaves a brother George Evilsizer, a sister Judy Patterson, a brother Bob (Lorain) Evilsizer, a sister Brenda (Tom) Monti, brother in law Wendell Bowlin, and one sister in law Mary Kaminski. Lawanda was preceded in death by her loving husband Frank “Bunny” Fourez Jr., her son Larry Alan Fourez, parents George Lucien and Goldie Evilsizer, 6 sisters; Doris Bowlin, Loretta Cain, twin sisters Nadine and Darlene Evilsizer, Gladys Terry, and Sharon Forgotch, one sister in law Charlotte Evilsizer and 4 brothers in law Jack Cain, Ron Terry, Sam Patterson and Julius Kaminski.

Lawanda’s wishes were to be cremated with a private graveside service. In lieu of flowers contributions may be made to Hospice of Southern Illinois, and will be accepted at the funeral home.

Ashes to Ashes

(Editor’s Note:  This story originally was published in Southern Illinois Sports Connection Magazine in September, 2007 – the second month the magazine was published.  It’s such a unique story with so many ties to Southern Illinois. With the ongoing controversy that has developed about renaming “Changnon Gymnasium” in Mt. Vernon, this story is again very relevant and gives some insight into the legendary coaching career of Stanley Changnon. I hope you enjoy. —   JM )

By Jim Muir

In the words of 93-year-old Goebel Patton, “it’s a story that needed to be told.”

And even though he’d kept it a secret for more than a quarter of a century Patton still knows the story very well — right down to the minute details. Patton worked for more than 50 years in the West Frankfort school system and served as superintendent for nearly 40 of those years.

In 1981, three years before he retired, Patton was approached by Stanley Changnon, Jr. and Mark Changnon, the son and grandson of legendary Coach Stanley Changnon, with a request that was the most unusual he’d received during his five decades as an educator.

“They asked me if they could scatter Coach Changnon’s ashes on Johnson Field,” recalled Patton. “They wanted to know if it was a request that should be taken through the school board. I thought about it a little and then I told them to just go do what they needed to do and not to tell me about it. I didn’t know for sure when they did it, but I knew they did it. I didn’t want to know for sure back then because if there were any critics I could just tell them, ‘I don’t know.’ I never told anybody because I didn’t know for sure.

Mark Changnon, left, and Stanley Changnon, Jr., grandson and son of legendary Southern Illinois prep coach Stanley Changnon, stand with former West Frankfort superintendent of schools, Goebel Patton on Johnson Field where Changnon’s ashes are spread. The Changnons refer to the field as ‘hallowed ground.’

 

A short time after that request was made, on a hot July day in 1981 the Changnons made the three-hour drive from their homes in Champaign to Southern Illinois. The Changnon’s first of two destinations that day was Johnson Field.

As West Frankfort residents went about their usual daily routines that summer day the Changnon’s completed their somber task and fulfilled the dying wishes of a larger-than-life figure – a man who is still revered in both basketball and football coaching circles throughout Illinois.

“All I know is that when we arrived the gate was unlocked, I don’t know who unlocked it, but it was unlocked for us,” said Mark. “And we walked out on the field, just the two of us, and did what he asked us to do. My grandfather mentioned it several times before he died so I know it was something that was very important to him.”

After completing the task in West Frankfort the Changnons then drove to Mt. Vernon where they scattered the remaining ashes at J.D. Shields Memorial Stadium.

When questioned about going on the record to do a story about the final resting place of their loved one the Changnons were enthusiastic and agreed with Patton that it was time that the story was told.

Mt. Vernon receives 1949 State Championship trophy from IHSA secretary Al Willis.

 

“I agree that it’s time the folks in Southern Illinois know about this story. I think it’s important that the younger generation knows about a man that loved high school sports so much that he wanted a football field to be his eternal resting place,” Mark said. “I remember when my grandpa started talking about spreading his ashes at the two football fields. He said he wanted his ashes spread there because it was two places where he had some of the greatest joys in his life.”

On a recent Saturday morning the Changnons and Patton met at Johnson Field — the first time the trio had met in more than 25 years. The three walked the field and recalled memories of the man who prompted the meeting.

Stanley, Jr. recalled a specific conversation he had with his dad only months before he died.

“He was in the hospital and he emphasized that he wanted to be cremated and he was very specific that he wanted his ashes spread at Johnson Field,” said Stanley, Jr. “He really loved this place.”

Stanley Jr., who is now 79 years old, remembers vividly his time in West Frankfort and also in Mt. Vernon. He recalled the attributes that he felt made his dad successful.

“As a coach he was fair but he was also a disciplinarian, you had to do what he said or you weren’t going to play,” said Stanley, Jr. “I think his greatest asset though was the ability to analyze what his players could do. He changed his offense almost every year according to the talent he had and what they could best do. He was also equally as good at analyzing and knowing how to attack his opponent. Even back then he was very much into every detail of the game. I think he was probably ahead of his time as a coach.”

According to his son, Changnon, Sr. was also one of if not the first coach in Southern Illinois to begin developing the one-hand shot in basketball.

“That was a big change when he started teaching the one-hand shot and a lot of people were critical of it,” said Stanley, Jr. “He started that at Johnston City in the mid-1930s and continued on at West Frankfort and obviously it caught on.”

Patton recalled the coaching tenure of Changnon, Sr. at West Frankfort and said one detail still stands out.

“You didn’t see him showing a lot of emotions, jumping up and hollering,” said Patton. “I asked him one time about his coaching style and he said ‘if I teach them all week and they don’t know what they’re supposed to do when the game starts I can’t change things then. He also believed that as a coach he couldn’t think his best if he didn’t remain calm. But, nobody questioned him as a coach, not if you wanted to stay around.”

While Changnon’s ashes were scattered on two football fields his accomplishments on the basketball court is where he is most often remembered. After leaving West Frankfort Changnon took a job in Mt. Vernon in 1943-44 where he coached basketball and football. During a nine-year stint as head basketball coach Changnon compiled a won-loss record of 229-59. Changnon’s 1948-49 and 1949-50 Rams’ teams won back-to-back state titles, making him the first coach to ever accomplish that feat in Illinois. During that incredible two-year state championship run under Changnon the Rams went 63-3.

IHSA secretary Al Willis congratulates team captain Max Hooper and coach Stanley Changnon after winning the 1949 state title.

 

Changnon began his coaching career in 1926 at Donavan High School where he coached for six years compiling a record of 108-52. He then coached at Johnston City for two years before taking the West Frankfort job where he coached football and basketball from 1935-43. In basketball his overall record at West Frankfort was 136-72. During 25 years of coaching high school basketball Changnon had a record of 507-199. A complete account of Changnon’s football record is not available but during his nine years at the Franklin County school his teams won seven South Seven championships.

The list of players coached by Changnon, Sr. reads like a who’s who of high school sports heroes and includes Max Morris, Lou Levanti, John Riley, Walt Moore, Max Hooper, Eddie King and Benny Purcell.

Morris, who the West Frankfort gym is named after, reached fame at Northwestern, Levanti starred at the University of Illinois in football, Riley and King played basketball at Bradley University while Moore and Hooper played basketball for the Fighting Illini. Purcell played for a college all-stars that competed in a national series against the Harlem Globetrotters.

Prior to beginning his illustrious coaching career the elder Changnon established himself as an outstanding athlete at Illinois State University. To this day he is one of only two athletes to ever win a letter in five sports during one season. While at Normal Changnon won letters in football, basketball, baseball, track and tennis. He received all-conference honors in football and basketball.

Because of a severe asthmatic condition Stanley Jr. never participated in sports, yet his dad’s influence motivated him in other ways.

“As a kid I knew he was a very special person in the community and was really looked up to by a lot of people,” said Stanley Jr. “That gave me a lot of motivation to be successful. Since I had asthma and couldn’t be an athlete I went into high science. I wanted to be successful like my dad was but I couldn’t do it in sports so I tried to do it intellectually.”

Changnon worked for many years as a professor and head of the Illinois Water Survey at the University of Illinois. He is a member of the National Academy of Sciences.

Following in his grandfather’s footsteps Mark is a teacher and coaches freshmen basketball at Champaign Centennial High School. Mark, who grew up in Champaign, still recalls spending periods of time in Mt. Vernon with his grandparents during the summer.

“I used to go the restaurant with him every morning and even as a kid I could tell that people thought he was special and I just felt proud to be with him,” said Mark. “I always wanted to be just like him.”

Mark said family members including his father and two brothers make an annual trip to Southern Illinois that always includes a stop at Johnson Field. He said knowing how much his grandfather loved coaching at West Frankfort he looks at the field as “hallowed ground.”

“When I go there, even now,” said Mark looking around at his surroundings at Johnson Field. “I can close my eyes and almost hear the crowd and I can see my grandfather on the sidelines. I’m glad we told the story.”

 

 

 

 

 

Dorothy “Jean” Caraker – West Frankfort, IL

Dorothy “Jean”  Caraker, 87, of West Frankfort, IL passed away at  12:15 p.m., on Wednesday, August 3, 2016, at the her residence surrounded by her family.

caraker Jean was born on May 5, 1929, to Clarence “Ted” and Josie (Roseman) Moore at Patoka, IL. She worked as a Shoe Clerk for the Shoe Room. On September 10, 1948, she married Donald Caraker and he survives.

She was a member of the Patoka Christian Church and enjoyed bowling, camping and trout fishing.

 Jean is survived by her loving spouse Donald, two daughters, Sharon Kay Piercy of Sikeston, MO and Cathy Ann Eldridge of West Frankfort, IL; one son, John Charles Caraker of Fenton, MO; seven granddaughters, Robin Lynn Reid of Christopher, IL, Amy Jo Grob of Benton, IL, Wendy Kay Piercy of Marion, IL, Elizabeth Ann Lane of Sikeston, MO, Jennifer Lynne Eldridge of Logan, IL, Catherine Bast  and Coleen Caraker of Chicago, IL; one grandson, Timothy Steven Eldridge of Troy, IL; six great-grandsons, Trevor Loren Owens of West Frankfort, IL, Brandon Boner of Marion, IL, Cameron Wilson, Dustin Boner of Marion, IL, Bret Hawkins of Sikeston, MO and Dillon Nave of Sikeston, MO; four great-granddaughters, Morghan Taylor Eldridge of

Lincolnton, NC, Courtney Piercy, Lacey King of Sikeston, MO and Page Roger of Sikeston, MO; two great-great-grandsons, Bentley Patton of Christopher, IL and Austin Wright of Christopher, IL and one great-great-granddaughter, Courtney Patton of Christopher, IL; two brothers, Murval Moore of Salem, IL and Burl Moore of Mountain Home, AR; three sisters, Irene Allegrett of Salem, IL, Vivian “Peg” Williams of IN, and Velma Hassell of House Springs, MO and many nieces, nephews and cousins.

She was preceded in death her parents, Clarence “Ted” Andrew and Josie Elizabeth Moore; three brothers, Dane Moore, Donald Moore, and Darwin “Bud” Neil Moore; four sisters, Helen Wooden,  Beulah Matz, Iris Bawm, and Gertrude Moore; one son-in-law, Timothy Eldridge;  one great-granddaughter, Cassandra Eldridge and one great-grandson, Jacob Boner.

Memorial gathering will be held Sunday, August 7, 2016, from 1:00 p.m. to 3:00 p.m., at Pate Funeral Home, 301 South Main St., Benton, IL.      Per Jean’s wishes, cremation was held.

 Memorials contributions are requested to Hospice of Southern Illinois and will be accepted at the funeral home.

Online condolences can be given at www.patefh.com.

Norma Jean Helton – Valier, IL

VALIER — Norma Jean Helton, 78, passed away at 5:23 p.m. Monday, Aug. 1, 2016, at her home.

She was born Oct. 8, 1937, in Thompsonville.

She graduated valedictorian at Valier High School Class in 1955. Norma graduated from Southern Illinois University with a bachelor’s degree in elementary education.

She taught at Sesser-Valier Schools for 31 years, where she retired in 1998.

She was a devoted Christian. She loved God, her family, her students, animals, and reading. She had 12 foster children over the years that she loved and claimed as her own.

Suvivors include her husband of 56 years, Charles Edward Helton of Valier, daughter, Donna Sue Helton Davis and husband, Greg Davis of Springfield, Tennessee; and son, Charles Travis Helton and fiancée, Bobbie Browder of Valier, five grandchildren, Celeste Davis, Caleb Davis, Christian Davis, Courtney Helton and Matthew Helton; and two great-granddaughters, Natalee and Addison; sisters, Lois Jackson and Jane Carter; and brother, Kenneth Rusher.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Sherman and Mary Irene Sullivan, both ordained Free Will Baptist ministers; sister, Juanita Burzynski and brother, Vernon Sullivan.

Arrangements per her request, are graveside services which will be at 1:30 p.m. Friday, Aug. 5, in Mount Etna Cemetery in Thompsonville. Those attending are requested to meet at the cemetery at 1:30 p.m.

Morton and Johnston Funeral Home in Benton is in charge of arrangements.

For more information or to sign the online guest register, visit www.mortonjohnstonfuneralhome.com.

Gerald Leo McGlasson, Sr. – Mulkeytown, IL

Gerald Leo McGlasson Sr., 85, of Mulkeytown, IL, passed away August 1, 2016 at Du Quoin Rehab and Nursing.

mcglassonHe was born June 13, 1931 in Mulkeytown, the son of Karl McGlasson and Opal (Henson) McGlasson.

Gerald married Yvonne “Pat” Marie (Huffman) McGlasson on September 29, 1952 and she preceded him in death on July 15, 1992.

He was a retired coal miner, last working at Old Ben 26, near Sesser, IL. He was an Air Force veteran and served during the Korean War. Gerald was a member of the VFW in Christopher, the UMWA and was the unofficial mayor of Mulkeytown.

Gerald is survived by his children Michell and John Salingue, of Royalton, IL and Jerry and Wendy McGlasson, Jr., of Benton, IL; grandchidren Jennifer McClintock, of Thompsonville, IL, Melissa McGlasson, of Benton and Sara and Kenny Wilson, of Christopher; great-grandchildren Jeremy McGlasson, April McGlasson, Caleb Stowers, Mya Wilson, Noah Wilson; brother Bill and Helen McGlasson, of Du Quoin, IL and their children Bill McGlasson, Jr. and Kelly Wiggins.

He was preceded in death by his parents and his wife.

A memorial service will be held at 1 p.m. on Saturday, August 6, 2016 at the Gilbert Funeral Home, in Christopher, with Brother Mark Miller officiating. Visitation will be at the funeral home from 11 a.m. until the time of the service at 1 p.m. Burial will be in Mulkeytown Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers donations can be made to the American Diabetes Association and will be accepted at the funeral home.

Gilbert Funeral Home in Christopher is in charge of arrangements.

For more information go to www.gilbertfuneralhomes.com.

Illinois seeking new private manager for state’s lottery

CHICAGO — Aiming to avoid past troubles, Gov. Bruce Rauner announced Thursday that the state is seeking bids for a new private manager to run the Illinois Lottery after moving to terminate Northstar Lottery Group’s contract last year.

Here’s the link to the story.

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