Pastor Rick Warren: The Forgiven Should Forgive

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“Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others” (Colossians 3:13 NLT).

Do you show people grace? It’s what God wants us to do, but it’s not always easy to remember to do because we are so often focused on ourselves.It’s easier sometimes to be selfish instead of gracious. You see the slow checker in the grocery store line as a five-minute interruption to your day rather than somebody who might be struggling to keep his job, somebody who just got the worst news of his life a few minutes earlier.

You see the one in your family who’s struggling right now as a drain on you rather than seeing her hopelessness over a desperate situation. You see the person who cut you off on the freeway as the physical embodiment of Satan instead of just a jerk who is in need of God’s love.

We are all jerks in need of God’s love. That’s why Jesus Christ came into this world. And to show people grace is to remember what God has done for us. The ultimate way God shows us grace is by forgiveness. And the ultimate way he asks us to show grace to other people is by forgiving them.

Colossians 3:13 says, “Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others” (NLT).

People often ask me, “How can I find the strength to forgive? I don’t have it in me.” I don’t have it in me, either! The only place I’ve ever found the strength to forgive is to remember how much Jesus has forgiven me. When I remember that, then he gives me the strength and grace to forgive others.

Clara Barton, who founded the American Red Cross, was reminded by a friend of an especially cruel thing that somebody had done to her years before. Barton acted like she didn’t remember it, and the friend asked, “Don’t you remember?” Her famous reply was, “No, I distinctly remember forgetting it.”

What do you need to forget? If you don’t forgive, you’re not going to enjoy God’s vision for the rest of your life, because forgiveness will keep you stuck in the past. You need to forgive for your sake, and then you need to get on with your life. Forgiveness is not saying that what somebody did was right or that there shouldn’t be consequences for what happened. It just means that you let go of your anger and hurt and give it to God so that you can move on with God’s purpose for your life.

When that seems impossible, when you feel like you can’t be gracious toward someone, just remember one thing: Jesus forgave you. Remembering the grace God has shown you will give you the strength to be gracious to and forgive others.

Talk It Over

  • How does forgiving someone affect the other person? How does it affect you?
  • What do you need to let go of so that, with God’s help, you can forgive and show grace to someone?
  • How do resentment and bitterness keep you from fulfilling your purpose?

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Martinez is new Cardinals closer

DETROIT • Carlos Martinez gained his first save in four years the other day in Washington. On Sunday, he earned his second of the week in a 5-2 win over the Detroit Tigers and was ordained as the new closer by Cardinals manager Mike Shildt, with Bud Norris moved to another role in the back end of the bullpen.

Here’s a link to the story at the St. Louis Post-Dispatch.

Ole Miss rallies to beat Saluki Football in shootout

Salukis pile up 629 yards of total offense, the sixth-most in school history.

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OXFORD, Miss. —OXFORD, Miss. — No Missouri Valley Football Conference team has ever beaten an SEC opponent, but Southern Illinois had Ole Miss sweating after three quarters during a 76-41 shootout at Vaught Hemmingway Stadium on Saturday.

The Salukis (1-1) led at halftime, 38-35, and were marching for a potential game-tying score at the beginning of the fourth quarter when linebacker Vernen Dasher picked off a Sam Straub pass and returned it 88 yards for an Ole Miss touchdown. The pick-six made the score 55-41 and was the first of four unanswered TDs for the Rebels (2-0) that put the game on ice.

Southern Illinois played a nearly flawless first half on offense, scoring on all six of their possessions and holding the lead for 25 of the 30 minutes of time on the game clock. Straub passed for four first-half TDs and ran for another, finishing the game with 382 yards passing.

“We turned on the film (of Ole Miss) from last week and felt really good about what they were giving us defensively,” Straub said. “There’s nothing too big for us as a team. It was kind of a preview of how good we think we can be offensively. We’re still just touching the surface.”

The offensive fireworks came fast and furious with the teams combining for 73 first-half points. Straub spread the ball around, with TD strikes of nine yards to Nigel Kilby, seven yards to Landon Lenoir, nine yards to Raphael Leonardand then a spectacular 70-yard catch-and-run to Leonard just before halftime that put the Salukis back on top. A native of Starkville, Miss., Leonard caught six passes for 117 yards. 

“He was super-proud to come back to Mississippi,” SIU head coach Nick Hill said of his senior wideout. “I know that everybody in the South who plays FBS football missed out on one heckuva player. I don’t know how he’s playing at FCS. The performance he had was pretty outstanding.”

Southern piled up 629 yards of total offense in the game — the sixth most in school history — and they did it against a highly regarded SEC opponent.

“I thought the entire week, the way (the players) approached traveling (to Ole Miss) they weren’t wowed by the situation,” Hill said. “They came down here to win a football game. We knew it would take 60 minutes, unfortunately we kind of ran out of gas.”

Ole Miss quarterback Jordan Ta’amu and his gifted corps of receivers were as good as advertised. Ta’amu completed 28-of-38 for 448 yards and five touchdowns, and A.J. Brown (158 yards) and Braylon Sanders (133 yards) both had monster games. Four different receivers had catches of at least 45 yards, as Ta’amu showed impressive touch on his deep throws.

“Those balls were put in almost perfect position,” Hill marveled. “I thought we were in great position for a few of them and it’s going to take a perfect throw and catch, and that’s what they did consistently all night.”

The Rebels are well-known for their quick-strike capability, and that was true today as they needed five or fewer plays to score five of their  offensive touchdowns.

“They’re explosive, they spread the field out, there’s running lanes,” Hill said. “If you don’t every once in a while put two safeties back there, then it’s going to be bombs away.”

Southern’s offense got off-track on it’s first two drives of the second half with two dropped passes and four penalties. Although Straub threw two second-half interceptions, Hill didn’t blame his senior quarterback for the errant throws. On the pick-six, Hill said he changed the play during a timeout and regretted putting his QB in a tough spot.

“(He) tried to get it to (Jacob) Varble on a leak-out, they covered it well, and Sam kinda threw it blind, but he’s trying to make a play,” Hill explained. “It’s more on me than it is on him. The last pick, it’s 3rd-and-9 and we’re down by two (scores) and he’s trying to drill one into Ralph (Leonard).”

Straub left the game midway through the fourth quarter after he was sacked, fumbled and Ole Miss scored on a 56-yard scoop and score. He had an ice bag on his left shoulder after the game but said he’d be fine. 

Southern out-rushed the Rebels, 241-167. Salukis running back D.J. Davis had 121 yards on the ground for his second-straight 100-yard effort. 

D.J. Davis continued to show that he’s an elite back,” Hill said. “He had some runs that he’s breaking tackles on linebackers.”

The Salukis, who play their home opener next Saturday against SEMO, did not take accept a moral victory, Hill said.

“There’s a lot of tears in their eyes in (the locker room),” he said. “They didn’t come down to get patted on their back. They’re a competitive group that expects to play at a high level. We set a standard with our program.”

 

Rally Squirrel II? Cards come alive, win after critter makes appearance

 

 

DETROIT — The St. Louis Cardinals needed something to get them going on Sunday against the Detroit Tigers.

Here’s a link to the story at the Southern Illinoisan.

Cubs-Nationals postponed, to be made up on Thursday

WASHINGTON (AP) — Sunday’s game between the Chicago Cubs and the Washington Nationals was postponed because of rain and rescheduled for Thursday at 4:05 p.m.

Here’s a link to the story at the Southern Illinoisan.

SIUC makes new play to boost enrollment with a ‘hands-on’ day for local high school seniors

CARBONDALE — On Sept. 19, Southern Illinois University Carbondale will put its laboratories, racecars, flight simulators and green rooftops on display, hoping to entice local high schoolers.

Here’s a link to the story at the Southern Illinoisan.

Business connections nag Rauner, Pritzker in race for governor

Having extensive wealth when running for office is generally seen as an advantage, but both of Illinois’ candidates for governor have recently been subject of criticism from actions by companies touched by their vast holdings.

Here’s a link to the story at Illinois News Network.

Highway danger: Study shows 42 percent of teens in Illinois text while driving

Survey shows 42 percent of Illinois teens texting while driving

Illinois high school students are more likely to text while behind the wheel than their counterparts nationwide, according to a new study.

Here’s a link to the story at Illinois News Network.

A stopped school bus, a grouchy old guy and stopping to smell some roses

I rushed out the door running late and a little frazzled.

With a satchel over my shoulder, carrying my laptop, phone in one hand and a stack of invoices to be mailed cradled between my chin and chest I was moving along fine until I realized that my truck was locked and the keys were in my pocket.  As I tried (unsuccessfully) to fish my keys out I muttered some not-very-nice words under my breath and started sitting things down so I could gain entrance to my truck.  Of course, I dropped the letters in the driveway. And, of course again, it had rained overnight.

I had scheduled back-to-back meetings for 8:30, 9:30 and 10:30 that morning and with two stops to make before I left town I realized I would be life and death to make it on time to the first one.  As I started my truck I looked around and realized that I had left a small notebook on my desk that had phone numbers for calls I wanted to make as I drove to my first meeting.  I told you I was frazzled.  I bounded from the truck and headed back in the house to retrieve the notebook.  Ugggggh!  This day is off to a fine start I thought as I finally backed out of the driveway.

As I drove toward the post office to mail the invoices I passed a corner that serves as a bus stop.  I noticed a boy, probably high school age, sitting on the sidewalk.  The unusual way he was sitting caught my attention.  He appeared to be sitting back on his heels and he was tall and sort of gangly and it made for an odd site.  I mumbled something under my breath about ‘being so young but too tired to stand’ … and added another line about ‘maybe too lazy to stand.’  The young boy was quickly out of my mind as I turned the corner to the post office because after all I was a busy man with a hectic schedule and I was running behind.

As I exited the alleyway from the outside postal box I turned back up the street and quickly found myself behind a bus at the same bus stop where the young man was sitting on the sidewalk.  I again uttered a few oaths under my breath as I saw the red flashing lights of the school bus come on as it stopped to pick up the students.  Again, I mouthed under my breath about my misfortune and all the problems I had trying to get out of town.

As I took a deep breath I noticed that even though the bus had pulled up the young boy was still in the same position.  While other kids boarded the bus I noticed that he slowly started to stand and he seemed a little unsteady.  He now had my full attention as I watched him put his backpack on and turn toward the bus.  His steps were small and he walked with a severe limp.  In another era he would have been called crippled but now in our politically correct world he is referred to as handicapped.  Either way he had some major challenges just moving a few feet. His steps were labored and painful even to watch.

As I forgot about trivial things like hard to reach truck keys, forgotten notebooks, scheduled meetings and being on time I wondered if it hurt him to walk and I hoped out loud that it didn’t.  I also wondered who he is, what his life is like, if navigating the hallways of school is difficult and if he has friends.  I also wondered why it is that some people (certainly me on this morning) can automatically assume the worst without knowing anything about a person or a circumstance. And I retraced my steps that morning, how easily I had maneuvered through the morning, walking here, walking there and griping every step of the way about things that really didn’t matter.  It was not a real proud moment for me and in fact it was one of those moments when I had to perform an attitude adjustment on myself.

As I sat and waited for his slow walk to the bus, each step making me grimace a little, I said a prayer for the young boy – a prayer that his day, his week, his school year and his life would be good.  I also said a prayer for a too-busy, impatient, sometimes-grouchy old guy who needs to be reminded frequently to stop and smell the roses.

On an average weekday morning I was reminded that many times in our high-tech, fast-paced, hustle-bustle world that life-lessons are standing right on the corner just waiting for us to pass by – even if it sometimes takes the flashing red lights of a stopped school bus to get us to slow down and see them.

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