Raymond Dale Eickelmann-Valier, IL

Raymond Dale Eickelmann, 75, of Valier, passed away on Thursday September 4, 2025.

He was born on October 16, 1949 in Christopher to Cecil Cole and Della (Martin) Eickelmann.

He is survived by his children Jon Eickelmann and Theresa Eickelmann; grandchildren Riley Eickelmann, Shelby Eickelmann, Drew Hauns, Samantha Hauns, Ginger Hauns and Chase Hauns and one sister Gaila Marie Carpenter of Buckner.

He was preceded in death by his parents, two brothers Cecil Cole Eickelmann and Gary Eickelmann.

Ray loved the outdoors and especially being at the family farm.

Funeral services will be on Tuesday September 9, 2025 at 1:00 PM at the Gilbert Funeral Home in Christopher with Brother Larry Cook officiating. Visitation will be on Tuesday from 11:00 AM until the time of the service at 1:00 PM at the funeral home. Burial will be at Harrison Cemetery in Buckner, IL.

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Brenda Hanlon – Sesser, IL

On Aug. 8, 2025, we learned that we had lost our mother, Brenda Lee Hanlon.

She was born Dec. 12, 1957, to Ann Ruth (Scott) and Kenneth Gilmore. She was named by her big sister, Kathy and was the proud big sister of her brothers Kenneth and Glenn.

Our Mother tried her very best in this life and it was a tough one for her. All of her girls loved her more than she could have ever imagined.

She was preceded in death by both of her parents and her brother Glenn.

She is survived by her loving daughters Shannon, Nicole and Maria and their partners as well as eight beautiful grandchildren. She is also survived by her siblings, Kenneth Gilmore, Kathy Papamatheakis and their partners, as well as many nieces and nephews that she loved very much. In lieu of flowers, we ask that you consider making a donation in the local area to The Survivor Empowerment Center (Carbondale). We will miss you always and forever, Mom. You will always be our “Molly girl”.

In the stillness of the morning and the quiet of the night

My heart seeks signs from you, my wish to know that you’re alright

I see your face in everything

songs, memories, the gentle breeze coming in to alight

Sometimes I think I hear an answer, a butterfly, a bird in flight.

Your face is amongst the stars now, I hope your soul is free

Although in my hardest times, I wish it could have stayed for me.

All I wish is peace for you, that somehow you’re still there

We spend our lives filled with hope

For the people and things we love

Sometimes that love and hope is simply not enough.

Though we didn’t get to have that, not meant to be in this same life, I hope you see and hear me now and know how very much I cared.

Naomi Lou (Eldridge) Vogel-Christopher, Illinois

Naomi Lou (Eldridge) Vogel, 91, of Christopher, Illinois went to be with her Lord and Savior on August 30, 2025 at The Anchor in Marion, Illinois. Naomi was born in Christopher, Illinois on April 12, 1934 to Carl and Genell (Carpenter) Eldridge. She married Charles “Chuck” Vogel on May 22, 1955, and he preceded her in death on December 9, 2018.

In addition to her husband Chuck, Naomi was preceded in death by her mother Genell Reid, father Carl Eldridge, stepfather Robert “Bob” Reid, brothers Raymond Eldridge and Deon Eldridge, mother-in-law Maude (Jones) Berolatti, father-in-law Martin Vogel, stepfather-in-law Joe Berolatti, sister-in-law Frances (Vogel) Furlin and brother-in-law Pete Furlin.

Naomi is survived by her daughter Lu Ann (Rick) Polley of Mulkeytown, Illinois, two grandsons Christopher “Kip” Polley (Ashley) of Marion, Illinois , and Tyler Polley of Wilton Manors, Florida, one great grandchild Taylor Polley of Marion, Illinois, nieces and nephews Jo Ellen Eldridge of Springfield, Illinois, Debbie (Ron) Frost of Austin, Arkansas, Michael Eldridge of East Hazelcrest, Illinois, Jeffery Eldridge of Sauk Village, Illinois, and Teresa Eldridge of Austin Arkansas, as well as several great nieces, nephews, and cousins.

Naomi was a member of First Christian Church in Christopher, Illinois where she spent many years helping in Vacation Bible School, youth groups, and the nursery. She worked as a telephone operator during the 1950s and early 1960s, and later worked for WIC (Women, Infants, and Children). She enjoyed reading, baking, walking, bowling, and spending time with her family.

Funeral services will be on Saturday, September 6, 2025 at 1:00 PM at Gilbert Funeral Home in Christopher, Illinois with Chris Webb officiating. Visitation will be on Saturday from 11:00 AM until the time of the funeral at 1:00 PM. Burial will be at Harrison Cemetery in Buckner, Illinois. In lieu of flowers donations can be made to the First Christian Church in Christopher, Illinois.

Naomi’s family would like to offer a special thanks to the many nurses, CNA’s, and staff members at The Anchor who went above and beyond to take care of her over the last six and a half years. Their compassion and care will always be treasured.

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William “Bill” or “Buddy” Kesler-Christopher, IL

William “Bill” or “Buddy” Kesler was born on June 11, 1941, raised in Christopher, IL, graduated from Christopher High School, and attended Southern Illinois University. He was preceded in death by his parents, William and Stella Kesler, and his daughter, Beth. He loved God and his neighbor; he set a good example for all the world. To Know Him Is To Love Him.

He married Janet (Hicks) Kesler in 1962, was blessed with a beautiful baby girl in 1964, Beth Ellen, and then in 1966, they were blessed with an adorable baby boy, Bradford Blaine.

He was a very caring husband to his wife, Janet, for 62 years; she was the love of his life, as he put her needs before his; a true love story of a couple that stuck together through it all.

Bill worked as a bunny bread salesman for 30 years. Bill had a “dad joke” and a smile for everyone he met, along with a very calming presence.

Bill was a loving son, husband, father, and doting grandfather. He was like a father to his daughter-in-law, Brad’s wife, Angie. His greatest contribution was his 3 grandsons, Logan, Carter, and Gavin. They were his pride and joy. He also loved and was proud of his grandson’s fiancé, Paige Lane, soon to be Paige Kesler on 9/6/2025.

Bill had a deep love and respect for nature; he took the time to appreciate watching the birds, squirrels, deer, or any creature that roamed the earth. An avid hunter, he enjoyed hunting with his brother-in-law and dear friend, Ronnie Hicks.

Bill loved learning new things and was able to figure out or repair anything. Bill enjoyed his iPad and iPhone and was well-versed with the new technology for a man of his age.

No need for flowers, instead take a walk in the woods or take in the beauty of this earth while thinking of Bill or better yet, have a “Bill Kesler 2 beer special” (which was, chug the first beer then savor the second beer while your wife thinks you are only just having one.) then tell a “dad joke” to a friend or a stranger to make them smile, just like Bill would do.

Rest in peace, Buddy.

Graveside service will be held at 11:00 AM on Wednesday September 3, 2025 at the Maple Hill Cemetery, Sesser, IL with Father Urban Osuji officiating. Friends and family are asked to meet at the Cemetery.

Bonnie Jane Fasig-Johnston City, IL

Bonnie Jane Fasig, 73, of Johnston City, IL, passed away on Saturday August 23, 2025 at Deaconess Illinois Medical Center in Marion, IL.

She was born on February 16, 1952 in Chicago, IL to Noah and Velma Mary (Newberry) Key. She married Finis Fasig and he preceded her in death.

She is survived by her daughter Mary McMahon; step-children David Fasig and Diana Skamra; grandchildren Jana Stelle, Cristian Thompson, Mark Stelle and Brook Stelle; step grandchildren Bobby Fasig and Brandon Fasig and one brother Kim Key of Christopher.

She was preceded in death by her parents, husband and seven brothers and sisters.

Graveside services will be held on Tuesday September 2, 2025 at 11:00 AM at the Maple Hill Cemetery. Friends and family are asked to meet at the cemetery.

For more information go to our website www.gilbertfuneralhomes.com

God’s Grace…and a lot of courage!

Roger Bennett and Mike Stewart share an unlikely and remarkable story about the horror of war and an unbreakable friendship.

By Jim Muir

Earlier this year, two men sat across the table from each other in the kitchen of a beautiful home nestled on the serene shore of Lake Moses, located northeast of Benton, IL.

To an outside observer this could have been two old friends, reminiscing over a cup of coffee or maybe just talking about sports, politics or life in general. But, this day, this meeting, this discussion went much, much deeper than casual conversation.

This day – May 8 – was a red-letter anniversary date that forever linked these two men – Roger Bennett, of Benton, and Mike Stewart, of Tacoma, Washington – together forever. It’s also a life-changing date that is seared in their minds forever. In 1968 the population of the United States was 200 million, and from that number Bennett, from the farmlands of the Midwest, and Stewart, from the sun and surf of California, shared a moment in time in the dark jungles of Southeast Asia. It’s a moment that has twists and turns, ups and downs and plenty of uncertainty.

Mike Stewart, left, and Roger Bennett, right, are pictured on May 8, 2025, in Benton, IL – the 57th anniversary of a grenade blast in Vietnam that changed both of their lives forever.

In order to properly tell this story, you must first rewind the calendar back 57 years to May 8, 1968. The location is Vietnam, during the brutal TET Offensive, at perhaps the height of conflict that all total claimed the lives of 58,000 American soldiers. Ironically, Bennett and Stewart had taken completely opposite paths that led them to this fateful afternoon on this scorching hot May afternoon. Bennett, a 1965 graduate of Benton High School, was working as an apprentice iron worker in St. Louis in 1966 when he was drafted into the U.S. Army. He turned 19 in September that year and was drafted the next month.

Bennett did his basic training at Fort Carson, Colorado and was then sent back there for tank training.

“I spent a year total (including basic training) at Fort Carson and I was drafted for two years,” Bennett said. “After a year had passed, I started thinking I might not go to Vietnam, and that would have been fine with me. And then two weeks later we got notice and they sent our entire outfit there.”
Stewart enlisted in the Navy in 1963 at the age of 17 and was discharged at age 20.

Roger Bennett, in Vietnam in 1968.

Stewart said he left the Navy because they wouldn’t send him to Vietnam. So, after his discharge from the Navy he enlisted in the Army and shortly thereafter found himself in Vietnam in the same unit with Bennett.

“I wanted to go to Vietnam,” he said. “It was going on at the time and I felt like I had to go and see what it was all about.”
When the conversation shifted to the importance of the meeting between Bennett and Stewart on the specific date of May 8, both men became emotional, stopping often to regain their composure and wipe away tears. Clearly, for both men the emotions of that fateful day nearly six decades ago are still very close to the surface.

On the afternoon of May 8, 1968 Bennett and Stewart were given instruction to respond to help another unit that was hunkered down and under sniper fire. The plan was to take a tank into the area to give the other unit cover so they could escape the enemy fire.

Stewart was the tank commander and Bennett was at the controls and there was an infantry unit traveling on foot behind them. Bennett said he had a “bad feeling” that “something wasn’t right” when the tank didn’t encounter any enemy fire, even after moving deep into the area.

Mike Stewart, in Vietnam, in 1968.

What Bennett and the rest of his unit didn’t know is that the Viet Cong were waiting until the tank got in range of a rocket-propelled-grenade (RPG) to open fire.

“All total, we were hit five times by RPG and the last one is the one that got Mike,” said Bennett. “It came in through the turret and it really did some damage.”

A turret on a tank, is best described as the rotatable structure mounted on top of the hull, that houses the main gun and the crew responsible for operating it. It allows the gun to be aimed and fired in any direction without needing to move the entire tank.

“I looked and saw that Mike was covered in blood, there was blood everywhere,” said Bennett. “I knew we had an infantry unit behind us, but I just threw it in reverse and floored it.”

After behind hit in numerous places from the RPG, Stewart recalled those harrowing moments before he lost consciousness.

“I just remember that I was trying to talk…and couldn’t…and I was trying to move my arms…and couldn’t,” he said. “I thought I was either dying or I was already dead.”

In all, Stewart received wounds in the armpit area under both arms, in the back, the stomach and the crotch area. Stewart spent four months in the hospital, the first six weeks in and out of consciousness and near death. He had more than 40 inches of scars to close the wounds. After being released from the hospital, Stewart was sent home and received his discharge from the Army in 1970.

Because communication in 1968 was nearly non-existent based on 2025 standards, Bennett’s attempts to find out how badly his tank commander had been injured were limited.

“I asked one of the medics how “Stew” was and his reply while he shook his head side-to-side was, “not good,” Bennett remembered. “That was usually the response we got when somebody didn’t make it. I saw them putting him in a body bag, so I thought he was dead.”

Bennett emphasized that his reaction to what he thought had happened to Stewart was not calloused, but simply the only way to deal with his current surroundings.
“You couldn’t dwell on anything or be distracted because we had people trying to kill us every day,” said Bennett. “Everybody’s goal was to try and stay alive another day.”

After his discharge Bennett tried unsuccessfully a few times to find out any information about Stewart and for more than 50 years believed that the tall, curly-haired tank commander had been killed right in front of him.

In all, Stewart received the Silver Star, Bronze Star and three Purple Hearts because of his actions that day and the wounds received. Bennett received a Purple Heart and the Medal of Valor for climbing into the burning tank and getting Stewart out. Ironically, it was the honors Stewart received that opened the door for Bennett to begin the task of trying again to find Stewart. During a conversation in 2018 with another veteran from his unit, Bennett was told about the Silver Star award and mentioned the name of Mike Stewart. Still not certain it was the same one, Bennett was able to obtain an address and promptly fired off a letter with the information he was looking for and he included his phone number.

Bennett said he received a phone call from Stewart a few weeks later and even during the early minutes of the call he was not certain that the person he was talking to was the same person he had served with during his days in Vietnam. He said there was an amusing exchange during the early minutes.

“He asked me what the guy named Mike Stewart he served with looked like,” said Bennett. “I told him he was tall and curly-headed and a nice-looking guy,” said Bennett. “When I said that, he said ‘and he’s still a nice-looking guy.’ When I told him the guy I served with had been in the Navy before enlisting in the Army, we pinned it down that he was in fact that same guy.”

Bennett said it was a surreal moment to go from believing Stewart had been dead for 50 years to talking to him on the phone.

“When I found out “Stew” was alive I was thrilled,” Bennett said. “I thought he was dead for 50 years. We were only together for a short time but he was the tank commander and he kept us alive. So, when I found out he was alive the first thing I wanted to do was get in contact with him and make a plan to get together.”

Stewart said he and Bennett talked on the phone a couple times a year during the past seven years – always on May 8 – but decided this past year to hold a reunion. Stewart and his wife Karen traveled by train from Tacoma to Benton to spend a few days with Bennett and his wife Robin.

While Bennett and Stewart took different paths to get to Vietnam, they also took very different paths after they were discharged from the military. Bennett worked 10 years for Best Buy in sales and then took a job in sales with Reader’s Digest, where he became one of the top salespersons in the nation. Roger and Robin are the parents of two children, Christian and Courtney.

For Stewart, the path was not as easy and putting Vietnam and his near-death experience behind him became a daily battle.

“You can’t block out what happened to you,” Stewart said, his voice cracking with emotion. “I can drop back into that time in a moment. I would get very angry, very easily. People would say, ‘why don’t you just forget that war?’ It wasn’t quite that easy. You came home and we were looked down on because we had been in Vietnam. We were never debriefed. I went to Vietnam by myself and I came home by myself. They didn’t send you in units like they do now, they sent you one person at a time. I couldn’t turn it loose.”

And from those emotions came other battles as Stewart fought drug addiction, which eventually led to a 42-month stint in federal prison for drug trafficking. He was released in 1977 and has had no issues since.

Bennett said he also had difficulties making the adjustment back to civilian life.

“I was angry when I got home and I became angrier when I learned that the war was more political than anything else,” said Bennett. “I tried to put it behind me as best I could. I remember when I came home, I was walking on the Benton Public Square and a car backfired and I hit the ground. I remember walking through the airport in San Diego and somebody shouted “baby killer” at me. There was certainly no warm welcome when we got home.”

Bennett said he also has experienced issues through the years about the “why” question of how he survived Vietnam.
“There was 12 of us that went to Vietnam together and only two of us came back home,” he said. “These were guys I had been with every day for a year and they got killed over there. I see their faces every single day. Why did I come back and they didn’t? You can’t get those thoughts out of your mind, no matter how hard you try.”
Through a trembling voice, Bennett then recited the last names of all those killed. “Yeah, let’s just erase it and forget about it…you can’t.”

Stewart said finally reconnecting with Bennett after nearly 60 years has been a “wonderful blessing.”

“It’s bringing back a lot of memories but also establishing a friendship I never did get to follow through with,” said Stewart. “What Roger has given me by this meeting is something I really needed and it’s something very special. His actions that day saved my life and is the reason I am here today.”

Bennett said when the entire story is put together, the reunion of two old Vietnam veterans is “nothing short of remarkable.”

“You have to keep in mind that I spend almost my entire life thinking “Stew” was dead, the last time I saw him they were putting him in a body bag,” Bennett said. “And then to get to meet him and share stories and memories is a tremendous blessing.”

Curtis Roy Barnes – Galatia, IL

Curtis Roy Barnes, passed away on August 21, 2025, at his home, Galatia, IL, at the age of 82, after a very short time of illness.

Curt was born Jan. 17, 1943 in Carlinville, IL, to Roy C. and Thelma Barnes. Curt graduated from Carbondale Community High School. He received his Bachelors & Masters Degrees from Southern Illinois University. On June 18, 1966, he married Priscilla A Pulliam. They met when Priscilla was 13 years old and his father came to pastor New Hope Church. When his Father left New Hope, Fern Pulliam said “Well we got rid of the preacher, but not his son”. They had been married 59 Years before his death. They spent 24 hours a day together since 1984. They have one son, Timothy Paul Barnes, of Galatia, IL.

Curtis taught history at Sesser High School for 14 years. Then at age 38, he decided to go to Law School. He graduated from Southern Illinois University, School of Law, at the top of his Class, in 1984. Upon graduation, he decided to build his law office on his farm, where he has practiced law until his death. Curtis and Priscilla have also operated an Income Tax Business for 53 Years. He valued his clients, and thought of them as friends. In 1982, Curtis & Priscilla purchased two Appaloosa mares. Since then, they have bred and raised many Appaloosa World Champions, along with a few Paints and Quarter Horses. The Office displays over 150 Trophies.

Curtis enjoyed hauling all over the country to horse shows, chasing points for Timothy and Priscilla. He was the “point keeper”. The Appaloosa Horse Club knew his point tally was accurate. Other exhibitors relied on his records. He valued all the fine people he met from different parts of the country. He was an avid reader and could quote you dates & locations of every Civil War Battlefield, and had visited most of them. His World History was equally accurate, even at age 82. When he started First Grade, he could not wait to go to school to learn to read. Curt had his standards & opinions and he always stood for what he believed. Curtis was a Born-Again Christian, with a deep belief in God, and that Jesus died for his sins, and we have the assurance that he is with God.

Curt loved music, specifically, Country, Bluegrass, Gospel, & Polka. He loved sports; basketball, baseball, football, track, horse racing, Tour De France. There are so many friends to thank for their prayers and support, you can never know how much you have helped us with your kind words, cards, food, and other remembrances. Curtis R. Barnes is survived by his wife, Priscilla A Pulliam Barnes, his son, Timothy P Barnes, Tim’s partner and long time Office Manager, Norman C Wiemken, of Galatia, IL. Surviving are also: brother, Daniel Barnes, of Minnesota; sister, Elaine Barnes, of Washington; sister, Paula Barnes, of England; sister, Rosemary Barnes, of France; and sister, Rebecca Barnes, of Oklahoma. Surviving also are his beloved dog, Maxwell Dodge Barnes, who went to the Office every day with Curt; and his Grand Dog, Winston Vegas Barnes Wiemken, who spent every day with Curt in the Office, both eagerly greeted all clients.

Thank you to Southern Illinois Hospice, and Dr. Eubanks and his Nursing Staff, for their kindness, understanding, and guidance thru this heartbreaking time. Curtis chose Cremation and the Family promised to fulfill his wishes. A Celebration of Life will be held at Stricklin Funeral Home, 503 E Sloan St, Harrisburg, visitation from 12 Noon until 5 PM, Saturday, August 30. At 5 PM there will be a Goodbye Service with Reverend Jerry Williams in charge. If you choose to donate a remembrance you may donate to Southern Illinois Hospice or any Charity of your choice. Again, thank you so much for your thoughts and prayers.

Judith Ann Giacomo-Mulkeytown, IL

Judith Ann Giacomo, 84, of Mulkeytown, passed away on Wednesday August 20, 2025 at her daughter’s home.

She was born on September 3, 1940 in West Frankfort, IL to Otis and Mildred (Hicks) Mabry. She married Gene Giacomo on January 17, 1959 and he survives of Mulkeytown.

She is also survived by her daughter Lisa (Jerry) Young of Mulkeytown; grandchildren Rachel (Jeremy) Chaney, Jacob (Niki) Tindall, Lindsay (Dakota) Smith and Jeremy Young; great grandchildren Lucas, Wyatt, Khloe, Colton, Gracelynn, Paisley, Everley, Maryann and Charlotte; one sister Joyce (Raymond) Pereria of California and one nephew David Pereria.

She was preceded in death by her parents.

She was an avid Dallas Cowboy and Chicago Cubs fan and also loved George Strait.

Graveside services will be on Monday August 25, 2025 at 11:00 AM at the St Andrews Catholic Cemetery with Father Urban Osuji officiating. Burial will be at St Andrews Catholic Cemetery.

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Gary (Joe) Lyn Smith-Benton, IL

Gary (Joe) Lyn Smith, 77, of Benton, passed away at3:35 a.m., on Sunday, August 17, 2025, at Helia Healthcare in Benton, IL.

He was born on March 7, 1948, to William “Bill” and Birdie (Roberts) Smith in Benton, IL.

Joe was a proud coal miner at Orient #3 in Waltonville. He had a deep love for the outdoors and spent every summer at Rend Lake, where he enjoyed camping and taking friends and family out on his beloved houseboat. It was this passion that earned him the nickname “Houseboat”, a name he was fondly known by on the CB radio to loved ones near and far. Joe was a laid back soul who was always true to himself, and his greatest joy was the time he shared with family and friends. He will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved him.

Joe is survived by his loving family, son, Brandon Smith and partner Nichole Colvin; three daughters, Chastity Smith, Lily Smith and Geraldine Smith; six grandchildren, Jersey Smith, Halle Smith, Charli Smith, Zina Smith and partner Clay Richardson, Skye Carlisle and several others; two great-grandchildren, Hadley Richardson and Atticus Richardson; four sisters, Jeannette (Smith) Tasky, Nita (Smith) Adams, Geneva Smith, Judith (Smith) Ward and husband, Michael and two brothers, Gene Smith and Jim Smith and wife, Virginia.

He was preceded in death by his parents, William “Bill” and Birdie Smith, brothers, Ernest Smith, Bob Smith, Dale Smith and John Smith and sisters, Sharon (Smith) Heinrich, Eunice (Smith) Conner, Mary Lou (Smith) Hobbie, Dorothy (Smith) Cockrum, Edna (Smith) Fotheringham, Infant sister, Belinda Sue Smith and Stillborn, Baby Girl Smith.

Arrangements have been entrusted to Pate Funeral Home and Crematory, 301 South Main Street, Benton, IL.

Per Joe’s wishes cremation will take place. A Celebration of Life will be held at a later date.

Online condolences can be given at www.patefh.com.

Shawn M. Trout-West FrankfortI, IL

Shawn M. Trout, 49, of West Frankfort, passed away on August 7, 2025.

He was born in Modesto, CA on March 25, 1976, to Sheila Shelton. Shawn worked as a Laborer in the construction field.

Shawn proudly served his country in the United States Army. Beyond his service, he was a loving son, brother, nephew, uncle and cousin, whose presence brought warmth and laughter to all who knew him.

Shawn is survived by and is the beloved son and brother of Sheila Shelton and Ryan Trout.

Arrangements have been entrusted to Pate Funeral Home, 301 South Main Street, Benton, IL.

Per Shawn’s wishes cremation will take place .

Shawn’s memory will live on in the hearts of his loved ones. 3/25/1976 – 8/7/2025

Online condolences can be given at www.patefh.com.

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